Intimate Ceremonies
for Gay Partnerships 🪔
Three of Wands
Where three flames weave as one.
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In the sacred geometry of the triangle – symbol of will and primal energy – we create a solid container for your partnership to expand. Reaching beyond couples therapy or conventional tantra, this is a pioneering embodied space where three points of power merge: yours, your partner's, and mine as grounding witness and active presence.
✧ Why Three of Wands? ⛛
The Three of Wands embodies desire's expansive potential. In Tarot wisdom, this card (featured above) shows a figure stepping beyond familiar shores, finding the courage to explore supported by three staffs of power.
Like the wands that ground this vision of possibility, our ceremonial container offers both holding and expansion – a stable triangle where your partnership can safely evolve. Inside our triangle of trust you’ll discover:
🂭 Naked touch between all present
🂭 Deep witnessing of your connection
🂭 New pathways to voice your desires
🂭 Joyful space to play and swap roles
This is relationship alchemy.
🔥 FIRST FLAME: THE GROUNDING
• Supporting each other in rest
• Root to heart connection
• Declaring boundaries and desires
• Mutual undressing ritual
🔥 SECOND FLAME: THE EXPLORATION
• Witnessed intimacy exercises
• Erotic pattern exploration
• Embodying the sacred fool
• Conscious three-way connection
🔥 THIRD FLAME: THE INTEGRATION
• Partnership honouring ritual
• Optional commitment ceremony
• Resources shared for at-home connection
• Poetic blessing (if commissioned)
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These ceremonies transcend ordinary intimacy work, opening into soulful realms of erotic possibility. Touch flows naturally between all present, forming a yantra of pleasure and devotion. From our first touch to our parting embrace, we craft an experience of complete presence.
✧ Your Ceremony ✧
During our consultation we will shape your ceremony to fit the bespoke needs of your partnership. Whatever we decide to create, the ceremony unfolds across three phases, each flowing naturally into the next:
✧ Celebrate Him ✧
Create space to hear him. Discover other ways to worship.
Break free from routine patterns and embody the touch your lover needs.
Perfect as:
🪔 Anniversary celebration
🟨 Birthday transformation
📿 Relationship milestone marker
🌌 Gift of presence to your partnership
Trans and gender-diverse couples warmly welcomed.
Ceremonies can be adapted for ENM constellations.
⛛ Practical Details ✧
Duration: 2.5 hours
Investment: £400 per couple in Birmingham / £450+ elsewhere
Location:
Birmingham, or in the comfort of your UK home
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Optional addition:
• Custom poetry commission celebrating your connection: £125
Your investment also supports making Touch Song™ group-offerings accessible to marginalised communities through the sliding scale program.
*Gift Certificates Available*
FAQs
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🌑 What makes this different from other couple's work?
This is a sacred space where desire meets devotion. Whether marking significant milestones, healing from relationship challenges, or building erotic confidence, through naked touch and witnessed connection, you'll discover new depths of authentic intimacy.
🌑 What are the boundaries of this work?
This is embodied, sensual work that includes conscious touch between all present. As your guide, I am available for both giving and receiving touch in service of deepening your connection. While deeply intimate, the work centres your partnership – my presence amplifies rather than replaces your bond. We maintain clear consent practices throughout. -
🌑 What should we expect during a ceremony?
A balance of structure and organic flow. While each ceremony is unique, expect somatic touch, poetic ritual, and deep heart-centred witnessing. We always maintain clear consent practices and regular check-ins throughout our time together.
🌑 How should we prepare?
Arrive hydrated, having eaten lightly 2 hours before. Wear loose, easily removable layers that you feel comfortable in. Most importantly, arrive with open hearts and curiosity. -
🌑 Can we customise our ceremony?
Yes. During our consultation, we'll craft a container that honours your specific needs and desires as a couple, whilst preserving some surprises for the day of the ceremony.
🌑 How often do couples book ceremonies?
Some couples are called to a single sacred experience, others may return quarterly for ongoing evolution. You’ll discover what best serves your journey.
⛛ Your Next Step ✧
The journey begins with a brief (30-minute) online consultation where we'll:
• Discuss your partnership's specific needs
• Explore your vision and questions
• Craft your unique ceremonial container
Who could you become together?
✧ Payment & Policies ⛛
BOOKING
• £100 deposit secures your ceremony date
• Balance due 72 hours before ceremony
• Gift certificates valid for 12 months
CANCELLATION
• Full refund: 7+ days notice
• 50% refund: 3-6 days notice
• No refund: <72 hours notice
• Exceptional circumstances considered
RESCHEDULING
• Free rescheduling: 7+ days notice
• £50 fee: 3-6 days notice
• Subject to availability
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