Intimate Ceremonies
for Queer Partnerships
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Three of Wands

Three flames weave as one

In the sacred geometry of the triangle – symbol of will and primal energy – we create a solid container for your partnership to expand. Reaching beyond couples therapy or conventional tantra, this is a pioneering embodied space where three points of power merge: yours, your partner's, and mine as grounding witness and active presence. 

Why Three of Wands?

The Three of Wands embodies desire's expansive potential. In Tarot wisdom, this card (featured above) shows a figure stepping beyond familiar shores, supported by three staffs of power.

Like the wands that ground this vision of possibility, our ceremonial container offers both holding and expansion – a stable triangle where your partnership can safely evolve. Inside our triangle of trust you’ll discover:

🂭 Naked touch between all present
🂭 Deep witnessing of your connection
🂭 New pathways to voice your desires
🂭 Joyful space to play and swap roles 

This is relationship alchemy.

🔥 FIRST FLAME: THE GROUNDING

• Supporting each other in rest
• Root to heart connection
• Declaring boundaries and desires
• Mutual undressing ritual

🔥 SECOND FLAME: THE EXPLORATION

• Witnessed intimacy exercises
• Erotic pattern exploration
• Embodying the sacred fool
• Conscious three-way connection

🔥 THIRD FLAME: THE INTEGRATION

• Partnership honouring ritual
• Optional commitment ceremony
• Resources shared for at-home connection
• Poetic blessing (if commissioned)


These ceremonies transcend ordinary intimacy work, opening into soulful realms of erotic possibility. Touch flows naturally between all present, forming a yantra of pleasure and devotion. From our first touch to our parting embrace, we craft an experience of complete presence.

Your Ceremony

During our consultation we will shape your ceremony to fit the bespoke needs of your partnership. Whatever we decide to create, the ceremony unfolds across three phases, each flowing naturally into the next:

Celebrate Him

Create space to hear him. Discover other ways to worship.
Break free from routine patterns and embody the touch your lover needs.

Perfect as:

🪔 Anniversary celebration
🟨 Birthday transformation
📿 Relationship milestone marker
🌌 Gift of presence to your partnership


Trans and gender-diverse couples warmly welcomed.

Practical Details

Duration: 2.5 hours

Investment
: £400 in Birmingham / £450 elsewhere

Location
:
Birmingham, or in the comfort of your UK home
https://www.airbnb.co.uk/
https://www.kayak.co.uk/

Optional addition:
• Custom poetry commission celebrating your connection: £125

Your investment also supports making my other offerings accessible to marginalised communities through the sliding scale program.

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Your Next Step

The journey begins with a brief (30-minute) online consultation where we'll:

• Discuss your partnership's specific needs
• Explore your vision and questions
• Craft your unique ceremonial container

Who could you become together?


Payment & Policies

BOOKING
• £100 deposit secures your ceremony date
• Balance due 72 hours before ceremony
• Gift certificates valid for 12 months

CANCELLATION
• Full refund: 7+ days notice
• 50% refund: 3-6 days notice
• No refund: <72 hours notice
• Exceptional circumstances considered

RESCHEDULING
• Free rescheduling: 7+ days notice
• £50 fee: 3-6 days notice
• Subject to availability