In a world that teaches us to either dominate or diminish, here at Tantric Monkey we practice the sacred art of compassionate power wielded wisely. This is the muscular tenderness that protects without controlling, that holds space without invading, that grows strong while remaining soft.

At the core of this power lies somatic consent – listening deep as the body speaks its wisdom. We honour not just the dignity of our lovers, but also the integrity of our own bodies as they naturally say yes or no. Through grounded touch, we reclaim power not as force over others, but as constant potential to remain present with our world.

This work challenges a culture that siphons our sexual energy for profit. Instead, we practice the sustainable use of our life force – understanding that what rises must also fall, that energy cycles rather than depletes. We reclaim the poetry of our choices, our boundaries, the clear wood-strike of authentic wanting to replace the pit of compulsive seeking. In accepting our natural limits, we paradoxically discover our true capacity for pleasure and connection.